Why can some see and others can't?

How do some know and others don't? I just want to know what part of my brain do I need to retrain? (look..I'm a poet and I didn't know it .. Pee Wee)

There are a select group of people in my life who are spot on when it comes to making calls on people in my life. For some reason I never listen. I think I might actually have the same gut feelings but don't pay attention to them because I think that every one deserves a chance to prove the world wrong.

I don't know if this stems from my youth, and not getting any chances because I had a the reputation of being some kind of bad ass, or if I give people chances they'll pleasantly surprise me and every one around us.

Pay close attention, I hate to admit that some one else was right but, Nadine, Peggy, Lisa, Liz, Bob, and all the others who warned me YOU WERE RIGHT.
I should have known better. I should have steered clear, but I didn't.

How is it possible that I couldn't have seen this on the horizon?
It's not the first time. I keep letting these losers suck me in. I always try to help and in the end... I'm the Asshole WTF???

It's all about the victim. Some one always is the victim. I keep my mouth shut so it must be the other person.

I keep thinking I am going to go talk to the person but that isn't going to happen any time soon. I can't stand the conflict. I finally have some peace in my life and here we are again.
I quit.

It has to be me... No one else is stupid enough to fall for the shit I fall for. If I were talking about a boyfriend or something I am sure all the girls who read this would say been there done that.
For me unfortunately it's not just men... I always get suckered by the needy friends. Of course I always say yes.

Not any more.
I'm done.
(unless it's one of the people I mentioned above... :D )

Lise's Givers and Takers sums it up ...