Sunday, October 19, 2008

On Defeat...


Is defeat really defeat when fighting a loosing battle?
Is defeat really defeat when somewhere in our subconscious mind we know the outcome before the battle even began?
Why do we fight for the things that we know are always the worst for us?

I wish I understood. If I did I would be able to help others who travel in those very same footsteps, and I could lead them in a better direction.

I wish someone had put some foot prints in front of me to follow (in my youth), but I didn't have a friend who cared enough about me to do that. The only people in my life then, were people who wanted to exploit me, and they did.

It hurts me to see my friends go through pain, especially pain caused by others. I can only hope that I can be there for them when the bad things happen. I can only hope I will be the friend they need to have around them. The Person who can bring light to what they think are the dark and hopeless moments. The moments that they think they will carry with them for ever.


I don’t believe for one moment that you were defeated. I don’t believe you should feel defeat. I want you to feel VICTORY.
You are victorious in removing something so toxic in your life that you have questioned, who you are, your value, what you deserve, and what you should want.
Don’t let the actions of others determine what you will receive in YOUR life.

Change your Mantra…
I AM WORTH EVERTHING I WANT! I WILL HAVE EVERYTHING I WANT. I WILL NOT LET OTHERS DETERMINE MY PATH!
No friend, boyfriend, family member will exploit my feelings for them.
I will do as much or as little as I WANT to do for the afore mentioned group.
It’s my destiny.



I love you. I am sorry for your pain. I am sorry that it just keeps happening.
Know this: You are an exceptional person with enough light inside of you to light the world aglow. You can show us your light when you're ready.


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